There was a blog I once lurked on that wrote about this subject of straightbians, and I’ve realised I’ve encountered them in my life numerous times. The blog (now privated) discussed the straightbian subtypes as well. Many of the ones I’ve met and even dated were a mixture between the man-hating and the special snowflake subtype. I think those two subtypes are the worst because they’ll usually string you along or claim they’re ultra picky in their taste in women, but seeing the men they like, it’s like wtf? Many of the straightbians I’ve also encountered will either date you and idealise you because you’re same sex attracted, or they’ll make the sexuality they’re pretending to be their personality, and be sarcastic with you and claim “yeah you’re same sex attracted” yet all I see these women date like 40 men 2 women back to numerous men, OR they’ll claim they’re gold stars (they may never actually had sex with men, but their attractions lead me to think they’re not homosexual). The special snowflakes want to be called numerous pronouns, will dye their hair numerous colors, call themselves q***r or pansexual (straight women love this label for some reason), numerous piercings and tattoos, then screech in being a heterosexual relationship that they’re valid; it makes me think they’re actually heterosexual because there’s many normie bisexual women out there even ones that might be mistaken for the special snowflake straightbian that live their lives in male partnered relationships and maybe sporadically, casually bring up that they’re bisexual, but not in an attention seeking way. Of course, straightbians usually have some cluster b personality disorder (same with fakebians, who, at least are same sex attracted, but they deceive others by claiming they’re homosexual/lesbian when in reality, they’re bisexual.) and you can tell whenever interacting with them. Straightbians are horrible for lesbians and bisexual women who want to date women seriously because they are usually performative when they’re in very short-lived homosexual relationships instead of being genuinely same-sex attracted. Some lesbians and even bi women might end up partnering with straightbians due to desperation or even them being self-hating.