Hello, and welcome back! Today, we’re going to be discussing how looks can be deceiving, especially when determining sexuality and autism. Now, the deception due to looks here, is unintentional, but I will empathise that how a couple of these people act is intentional deception, due to their borderline pathologies. Because of my extensive research on this, I can provide personal anecdotes on relatives (extended and further), friends, and even celebrities to provide some more in depth detail about why you cannot always determine autism or homosexuality based on Kibbe body types. This will be discussed more in part 2. While looks can usually pinpoint somebody’s sexual orientation and if they’re autistic, that is not always the case.
Autism with Kibbe body types
Autism in both sexes usually has a more masculine/yang Kibbe body type. However, I do have some IRL examples of how a couple of good friends of mine defy stereotypes, and an enemy of mine who tries to act autistic, but isn’t an actual autist, due to his overly feminine mannerisms, body, and how he acts more HPD (Histrionic Personality Disorder) than anything else. This person also fakes Tourette’s due to my observations.
Sexual orientation and Kibbe
Females with a more masculine Kibbe type are more likely to be homosexual than heterosexual, and vice versa, with feminine males. However, I can provide real life examples of how some females with more masculine/yang Kibbe body types are straightbians (special snowflake subtypes), and how they have BPD, and how it manifests in a feminine manner. I can also pinpoint how they act that leads me to conclude that they most likely have BPD, not only their behavior online, but how they’ve acted IRL. These same females also have accused me of being too direct, too confrontational, too aggressive, too abrasive, too crass, psycho/crazy, bitch, “talk like a man/write like a man” and other hetsplainations of how they interpret my communication style. Due to refusal of acknowledging of their actual personality disorder/mental illness (BPD for one, BPD comorbid with non-veteran C-PTSD for the other), they will try to find other mental illnesses and neurological disorders to co-opt and claim that they are. For example: Autism (while shitting on my suspected level 2 social communication difficulties), ADHD (while shitting on my ADHD), and manic depression. All of which they don’t actually have. Special snowflake straightbians find ways to have persecution fetishes as well as victim complexes. Other irl examples include: a good friend of mine dressing more feminine with a yang/masculine Kibbe body type, is asexual (actually asexual as in sex repulsed, doesn’t have/want to have sex, hates anything sexual), a good friend of mine who’s autistic (also less severe than me) and heterosexual who actually is more feminine, a first cousin of mine who’s either bihet (bisexual who leans more heterosexual) or heterosexual with more yang/masculine Kibbe type, a couple of second cousins who are also more yang/masculine in Kibbe, but bihet, and many more examples IRL. Also, a couple of celebrities I’d like to mention who are often on the opposite ends of Kibbe. Taylor Swift (my sisters love her), who is often accused of being either homosexual or even a m2f transsexual due to her more masculine/yang Kibbe body type, dresses in a feminine manner, with the exception of Joe Alwyn, has dated more traditionally masculine males as well. 100% heterosexual and zero percent autist. Another celebrity I’d like to mention is Lee Kyu-Han. While he dresses somewhat masculine at times, a person I talked to thought he was almost a reverse trap for a second. He looks at least 15 years younger than he actually is (common for males in Southeast, East, and parts of Central Asia, uncommon for males in general), due to the fact that South Koreans take very good care of their skin.
Age and how it can skew Kibbe body types, particularly with height
Kibbe is mostly an American thing, considering how he lives in NYC, but the fact that “average” height is different in different countries, I’d like to explain not only that, but the fact that different live stages can skew stuff as well with Kibbe. For example, if you include pre-menopausal to post-menopausal women (around 40+ I would assume, since he won’t type women 40-), “moderate” height would be around 160-163ish cm. Despite it being on the upper end of petite heights (I’m talking about height; most people misinterpret petite as leaner/lanky/ even anorexic-like size), due to the fact that women start shrinking more in their 40’s, this is an understandable reason for him to put that as “moderate” height for women over 40. However, once women are 20 for example, the 50th centile in height is between 163-165cm. It is 164cm, but I generally put it at 165cm for moderate. This is obviously American standards. Other countries, for example, for women under 40, I’d put moderate height in the Philippines as 152-153ishcm for women under 40, and 150cm for women 40+. Men would be depending on age and country too. Men also go through a male menopause called andropause, but later than women who go through menopause. So, for male average height in USA, I’d put 177-178cm for men that aren’t in andropause, but 175-176ishcm for men who are at least in pre-andropause. This is all moderate height. Of course, some of the tallest men in the world would be in the Netherlands, but like with all average heights, it include all adult men. So for andropausal men in the Netherlands, I’d do 183ishcm, but slightly taller for men who aren’t in andropause (185ishcm). This averages are girls/boys out of puberty to women/men who aren’t in pre-menopause/pre-andropause yet. Of course, you wouldn’t include adolescents and children who are still in puberty, nor would you include children who aren’t yet in puberty with height in general, and with Kibbe types.